It is not my cup of tea - if I got a euro every time I heard that answer when I have invited people as a guest to a Meeting - I would be living in Spain in my villa today. The first thing is you will not know until you try. The second – no pain no gain. Admittedly there are members in all Clubs who – to put it mildly – like the sound of their own voices. Let me tell you they are in the minority. The primary purpose of most members is to gain confidence, to learn to communicate effectively, and thereby, be able to hold their own in their chosen field of employment. Presentations and appraisals are buzz words in today’s work place. And with the advent of Television the demands are even higher to perform well. We are used to the smooth operators who make it all so easy on T.V, but who in fact have to practice to keep up their performances. Toastmasters helps the person who is being bullied in College, or in the work place, or in the home to assert themselves, and stand up to bullies and see them for what they are – weak cowards with a loud voice. Just think what a relief it would be to be able to meet people on an equal footing, make your point diplomatically but firmly, and leave knowing you have not been ‘brow beaten’. This is a good feeling, which will allow you then, to work to your optimum performance.
Without sounding too repetitive there are also the social and fun aspects to the meeting. While it is not easy to participate at the beginning – with time and perseverance it will become second nature to you to stand up and give your opinion voluntarily. By doing this you will slowly notice the change in yourself. You will feel more confident, more decisive, and happier in yourself.
Last week the meeting lived up to my expectations. It was most enjoyable. Because there are different people on the program, each week, each meeting is different. Have you ever gone to a meeting and the same people hog the lime light all the time? This leads to boredom and frustration on the part of the audience. This does not happen in Toastmasters. Every member can book their slot to give a speech and the ‘EVP’ i.e. the person who makes out the program, ensures that everyone gets a fair opportunity, hence the balance and variety of each meeting. In our Club the Educational Vice President is Ann Buckley. She works hard at having a good balance at every meeting.
Some details of the last meeting. Ann O’Sullivan was the topics master of the night. She had a great variety of topics. The response was great, and most enjoyable. The Speakers of the night were Catriona Daly, Pat Duggan, Denis Taylor, Marie Fitzpatrick and John Dillon. Here a high standard was achieved by all. We look forward to their next contribution.
Our next meeting is on Thursday 22nd February at 7.50 sharp. Guests welcome as always. Further details on our website www.speakeasytoastmasters.com
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